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"He Was Not the Man I Married": 7 Warning Signs of High Estrogen in Men

It was like waking up in an alternate reality.


One day you're in this great relationship, full of energy and adventures, and then, you notice things... off things. When my husband, Dave, began gaining weight and snapping over the smallest things, I half-joked that maybe he was the one hitting menopause. Turns out, I wasn’t too far off.

The Shift That Baffled Us

When we first got together, my husband was this powerhouse of a guy—always up for late-night chats and laughter, a spontaneous road trip, or hitting the gym hard. But then, his vibrant energy dimmed. Things started to shift, and it wasn't just because we were getting comfortable.


Over time, I watched as the guy who used to lift weights like they were feathers began struggling to muster the energy to even go for a walk. His moods were all over the place, and he started struggling with his weight, felt perpetually insecure, became unfocused, and just didn’t seem like himself. His drive, both at work and home, just plummeted. And let’s not even start on the bedroom department...


We were stumped. Visits to the doctor? Check. Blood tests? Done. More leafy greens? Sure. Nothing came up. Nothing made sense. It was heartbreaking to watch someone you love fade away without a clue on how to help.


Then, one day, deep in the rabbit hole of men's health forums and medical papers, we stumbled upon something that turned our world upside down - Estrogen Overload.


Yeah, you heard it right—estrogen. That hormone we usually only talk about when we chat about women's health. But here it was, messing with my man.


Men are like finely tuned sports cars when it comes to hormone balance. They need the right ratio of testosterone (the fuel) to estrogen (the oil). Just as a car requires the right balance of oil to fuel to run smoothly, so does the male body need a balance of these two hormones to function optimally.


But when estrogen levels climb too high, it's like overfilling the car with oil. Suddenly, you might see smoke and things start to go haywire. The engine isn’t running as it should – it’s sluggish, it’s leaking, and it just doesn’t have the power it used to.

But why were his estrogen levels hitting the roof? Well… that was the real puzzle, and soon after we found the missing piece that uncovered everything for us.


Turns out, his body was being tricked into making too much estrogen But not just naturally—something else was pushing it over the edge. And all the signs were there, we just didn’t know how they all fit together into this bigger picture.

7 Signs That Screamed 'Too Much Estrogen!

Weight gain
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1. The Dad Bod Plus

It wasn't just a little extra around the middle—it was as if his entire body was reshaping itself. He even started growing what looked uncomfortably like breasts.

2. Tired But Wired

Imagine charging your phone all night only to find it still won't turn on in the morning—that was him. Despite clocking in a full night’s sleep, he'd wake up as if he'd been wrestling all night.

3. Less Fire

His sex drive decided to take a long vacation. What used to be nightly adventures turned into "maybe next week" promises. Yeah, not great for either of us.

4. Mood Rollercoaster

From zen to zero back to ten, his mood swings were off the charts… One minute he'd be chill, the next he was about to launch into orbit over the smallest stuff.

Tired man
Photo by Andrew Neel

5. Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow

His hair was thinning up top, but hey, let’s grow a beard on the back, shall we? Like Mother Nature played a cruel joke and hit the relocate button.

6. Muscle Mystery

It was as if his muscles were melting away. That well-defined body that had once been his pride and joy was now softening, blurring the lines of the physique he’d worked so hard to build and maintain.

7. Brain Fog

Ever seen a grown man forget why he walked into the kitchen? Yep, that’s become a regular show around here. Simple things like remembering his keys, finishing tasks, concentrating on small things turned into a real challenge for him.

And apparently all these signs were pointing to one culprit – Xenoestrogens.


These are sneaky, synthetic chemicals that act like estrogen in the body. They’re like the ultimate copycats in the world of chemicals. They sneak into your body pretending to be estrogen, the hormone that both men and women have but in different amounts. When they get into your system, they start messing up your hormone levels because your body thinks there's more estrogen than there actually is.


And unfortunately, they are everywhere around us… in our homes, in the products we use every day, even hanging out in our air, water and food. And they were messing with Dave — big time.


These chemicals don’t just sit quietly, no no, they can zap your energy, mess with your moods and energy, influence hair patterns, focus and memory, rearrange your body and how it stores fat…


And even hijack your gut health, your digestion, and how you detox these chemicals.

The Game Plan

Armed with info and a new enemy, we revamped everything. Plastic containers? Gone. Sketchy soaps? Bye. We started filtering water, switched to organic grub, and most importantly, got him on EstroControl.


This stuff? It’s gold. Packed with natural fighters like vitamin C, broccoli extracts, and a band of other hormone-balancing heroes, it helped us tackle those pesky xenoestrogens head-on. It detoxed the excess estrogen that was throwing him off balance, and let me tell you—the change was impressive.


He’s got his mojo back. The weight's better managed, he's up for morning jogs, and the mood swings are so much smoother. He’s more himself than he's been in years, and it’s all thanks to understanding and tackling estrogen overload head-on.